Monday 23 November 2015

CHOOSING FRIENDS


Choosing friends is one important thing every person does in this life. The choice of friends decides the kind of future you are bound to live and the legacy you will leave. Often it is our friends that choose us, but have you ever thought of evaluating the kind of friend you are about to tie your destiny to.

Let us look into some considerations that are important when choosing your friends. 


How that prospective friend treats his or her old friends. If this friend could stop being friends with other friends, he or she can stop being yours. If this prospect slanders his or her old friends, be sure you will be slandered also.

Consider how this friend you intend to make treats his present friends. If that friend betrays the trust of the other friends he has, then he will betray your trust.

Check your principles and routine, if they do not match with those of your prospect. Let you just be acquainted to each other but do not let your relationship move further.  Be strong enough to remain alone for the things you believe in, then you will have the right friends.

Your friends should be your prop to your purpose. As much as you can, avoid the ones who make you lose your purpose in life. Hold on to your vision


Habits are built over a long time, killing them is close to impossible. The same are habits around how people treat their friends.

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